Everyone complains that men are terrible at relationships because they don't communicate, they don't talk about their feelings, they don't emote, etc. But, is that really true?
Consider these three videos:
Tik-Tok Transcript:
"You know what, I have a list and you can tell me if any of these ring a bell. These are all men who have had divorces initiated against them:
- Brad Pitt
- Johnny Depp
- Jeff Bezos
- Bill Gates
- Elon Musk
- Dr. Dre
- Ryan Reynolds
- Tom Brady
- Lance Armstrong
- Alex Rodriguez
- Channing Tatum
- Chris Rock
- Ben Affleck
- Chris Pratt
- Liam Hemsworth
- Ben Stiller
- David Duchovny,
- Orlando Bloom
- Tiger Wood
- Sean Penn
- Sylvester Stallone
- Paul McCartney
- Ryan Philippe
- Jason Mamoa
- Michael Jordan
These are all very attractive men, high status men, wealthy, and even they can’t keep a chick. I consider myself kind of a normal dude. Bro, if Brad Pitt can’t keep a chick, I’m f*cked."
Youtube Transcript:
"What is a woman truly saying if they're saying if they say 'I don't like nice guys'?"
They're saying my nervous system does not produce the effect that I call love around people who do not send it into some kind of fight-or-flight response. When I am met with someone who does not make me chase, when I am met with someone who doesn't make me feel I have to earn their love, who doesn't play games, who doesn't give me anxiety by being consistent for three days and then dropping off the radar for five or a week, when I am with someone who doesn't do those things it does not feel like love to me, it doesn't feel like passion, it doesn't feel like fireworks, it doesn't feel like the thing I think I'm supposed to feel..."
Facebook video
Interviewer: More often than not, of all the relationships you have had, do you end the relationship or the guy?
- Woman 1: I've ended every single relationship.
- What about you?
- Woman 2: I've also ended every single relationship.
- How many relationships have you been in?
- Woman 2: Three
- Woman 1: Three
- What about you?
- Women 3: Mostly me
- How many relationships have you been in?
- Women 3: Four or five
- What about you?
- Woman 4 I've ended them all, I think like five
- Woman 5: I've ended them all, and I've only been in two
- What about you?
- Woman 6: I've been in five or six, and only once has someone else ended the relationship
- Woman 7: 75% me, eight or nine relationships.
- Woman 8: Four relationships and I've ended all of them
- Woman 9: I've ended all three
Whoah! So hold on, a typical complaint I hear from women is why are men so commitment-phobic? Why are men scared of commitment? Why don't men want to get married? All of you, it's almost unanimous, have ended all of your relationships. Once you get commitment, you overwhelmingly end it."
Women don't like being accountable.
Conclusion
Keep in mind, women initiate 70% of divorces. College-educated women initiate 90% of the divorces.
So, people are wrong to ask why men won't commit. The correct question: "why do women almost always initiate break-up and divorce?" Commitment is not a man problem. Commitment is a problem with women.
Women don't like to face the fact that it is female insecurity and female incompetence at maintaining relationships which drives almost all relationship problems. Men don't have relationship problems, women do.
Women are absolute crap at maintaining relationships. They project their failures and their incompetence onto the men. It ain't us, ladies. It's you.
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